If you make it known that you'd rather get your ass waxed than fondle another woman's breasts, he'll probably never bring it up again. But if he continues to push the issue after you've snuffed it out, especially if his nagging is making you feel inadequate, that's a cause for concern, says Laino. Also, if your guy has a habit of being or starts getting very specific about his threesome fantasies (like naming the third party he'd like to knock boots with), you may want to think twice about his motives, says Queen.
Before you sit him down for a heart to heart, determine whether or not you'd ever be interested in a threesome. If you're at least into the fantasy of it, take the time to define your fantasy—what it would look like, who it would be with, what you'd want to do, and what you'd want to skip, says Queen. Then get bae to do the same.
You may also want to remind him that a threesome doesn't have to include another womanthere are plenty of guys down to play the third wheel. Just sayin'.
Sexplain It: We Both Want a Threesome. We Can't Agree on What Kind.
So you’ve agreed as a couple to try and bring a person in for a threesome. Before you even start looking for a candidate, you’ve got to set clear ground rules for what you want as a couple, and how much you’re comfortable with your partner doing with the third.
