They seek it , they seek it in the brothels and they seek it in the bedroom. Everyone wants the porn star experience. But no one wants the porn star.
Dr. Gail Dines, a professor of sociology and women’s studies, explains, “The biggest sex educator of young men today is pornography, which is increasingly violent and dehumanizing, and it changes the way men view women.” The porn star experience. When boys are learning about sex through the warped lens of pornography, it is no wonder they’re losing their ability to respect and honor women, as slut shaming and rape culture breed and increase.
The porn star experience, from the guy’s point of view, is all for his pleasure and often at the expense of the girl’s dignity, and sometimes, humanity. The increase in POV and gonzo porn delivers a clear message of what girls should be doing in the bedroom and guys are trying to take that message to real life. This is what men and boys are learning to expect in a relationship. Instead of understanding healthy relationships exhibit respect, they are learning that they exhibit power.
Victor Malarek explains in his book, “Pornography fuels prostitution, and prostitution fuels the sex trade.” It is linked. It is supply and demand. It is a mindset. Malarek interviewed many Johns that pay for sex in brothels and many admit to pornography being their commercial, their advertisement of what they will pay for, what they’re seeking. So boys and dirty Johns alike… Both want the porn star experience.
And it is called the Porn Star Experience.
