It's important that we talk about all kinds of sex because not everyone is having, or wants to have, "penis in the vagina" sex. If you do have "penis in the vagina" sex and are curious about something else, or are finding that that type of sex is not for you and you'd like to explore other options, it's helpful to know the facts. Even if you do learn more and decide anal sex is not a thing you'd like to try, it doesn't hurt to have the information.
If you're not comfortable reading about anal sex, that's perfectly OK, too. We have plenty of other articles about a variety of issues and wellness. Feel free to click out if you'd like! No pressure at all.
Obviously there is a lot of stuff on the internet about anal (and we don’t suggest you Google it), but most of what you’ll find is either porn or advice for sexually experienced people looking to try something new. What about the teenagers? who need to know about this for their sexual health?
Anal sex, though often stigmatized, is a perfectly natural way to engage in sexual activity. People have been having anal sex since the dawn of humanity. Seriously, it's been documented back to the . So if you’re a little worried about trying it or are having trouble understanding the appeal, just know that it isn’t weird or gross.
Asking for anal can be a bit daunting, no matter who you are. Have a one-on-one with your partner and let them know that this is something you want to try. Be honest about your feelings about it. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to discuss anything openly. Everyone wants to have a good experience. If they are into it, go ahead and get started.
